This patch set increases the timeout to wait for resources to be
created/deleted. This is needed to better support spikes without
restarting the kuryr-controller. This patch also ensures that
future retry events are not afecting the kuryr controller if
they are retried once the related resources are already deleted,
i.e., the on_delete event was executed before one of the retries.
Closes-Bug: 1847753
Change-Id: I725ba22f0babf496af219a37e42e1c33b247308a